Tag Archives: rejection

Coconut Candy Gram: Get the hell out of this mess now!

I have continued with my resolution to avoid dating sites. They are full of unavailable men. Don’t think I am being critical, because these are my people!  I am most comfortable dealing with men on the fringe. Not to say … Continue reading

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A Man’s Worth: Corporate Bullying

I am heartbroken. I received the news an hour ago that a friend of mine committed suicide this evening. I am angry, sad, frustrated and exhausted all at once. Let me back up and tell this amazing man’s story. He … Continue reading

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New Year’s Solutions

I am a little late, but I am ready for my New Year’s reSolutions.  1. I am going to focus on me. I am important and I deserve to be healthy and to invest the time and energy into making … Continue reading

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Miss Maribel Maeve Melancholia

I know: That you can be dead without dying. That the breath and life that filled your chest can leave and all that remains is shallow nothingness. The depth of love and dreams and hope exhaled in a breath I … Continue reading

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So long, Sucka!!

So long, Sucker!  (And yes, I am talking to myself!) Mr. Number Cruncher aka Man Candy has left the proverbial building. What a strange exit he chose, but thank goodness *sigh of relief* he is gone. Last night is usually … Continue reading

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Sweet Treats

The candy shop has turned into a bakery.  Big Daddy, Mr. Number Cruncher and many others are gone. Big Daddy revealed himself to be a true Narcissist. He was unable to be there for me as a friend when I … Continue reading

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Another time….another place….

I really hate to be a downer tonight, but I am a downer tonight. Welcome to the redundant department of redundancy. I made a BIG decision tonight to deactivate my dating site account. “Why?!!!!” you ask. Well, I found the … Continue reading

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See how I’ll leave with every piece of you…Don’t underestimate the things that I will do

You’re gonna wish you never had met me. Tears are gonna fall rollin’ in the deep.- Adele The day was long and brutal. I had people to deal with all day at work, and a mountain of paperwork. I couldn’t … Continue reading

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Twister: You may not be in Kansas

The words he used burned in my brain. The way he blamed me for ruining things. He said I should not have asked so many questions about our future. It was almost comical to see him from the outside in: … Continue reading

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In his pocket

I am in a weird mood tonight. I had a VERY long day at work and haven’t really had a chance to talk to anyone but Mr. Loves Being Loved today. Typically, I do only talk to him. I am … Continue reading

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