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Coconut Candy Gram: Get the hell out of this mess now!

I have continued with my resolution to avoid dating sites. They are full of unavailable men. Don’t think I am being critical, because these are my people!  I am most comfortable dealing with men on the fringe. Not to say … Continue reading

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A Man’s Worth: Corporate Bullying

I am heartbroken. I received the news an hour ago that a friend of mine committed suicide this evening. I am angry, sad, frustrated and exhausted all at once. Let me back up and tell this amazing man’s story. He … Continue reading

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Rest

Do you know what you would do with your life if you no longer cared if you lived or died? It’s different than wanting to die. It’s like a warm breeze blowing across a field of wildflowers ; a gentle, … Continue reading

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Miss Maribel Maeve Melancholia

I know: That you can be dead without dying. That the breath and life that filled your chest can leave and all that remains is shallow nothingness. The depth of love and dreams and hope exhaled in a breath I … Continue reading

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Speechlessness-ity

I woke up sad today. I would say I don’t know why, but I do know. Last night, something weird happened with Mr. Number Cruncher. He started talking about himself again and how I would go crazy when he left … Continue reading

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Thankful

Tonight, I am focusing on gratitude.     I am Thankful for:My beautiful, brilliant babies.My mental health and ability to think and reason.My job, however imperfect the company I work for may be.The amazing people that God has lead into … Continue reading

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Between a Rock…and..well, a Rock.

This is what it feels like to stand in a crevice between two giant boulders. You know, the kind of fight for survival pinned-in-ness that causes a person to sever their arm to escape alive. I am losing consciousness in … Continue reading

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Drifting towards Camelot

“But in her web she still delights To weave the mirror’s magic sights, For often through the silent nights A funeral, with plumes and lights And music, went to Camelot: Or when the Moon was overhead, Came two young lovers … Continue reading

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Life is a Beach!

What a week, Y’all! I am exhausted. Friday night, Big Daddy came over to take me to dinner. He brought me the most beautiful flowers I have ever received! They were gorgeous! I was so happy to see my handsome … Continue reading

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Crossroads

Well, Y’all, I think I am at a crossroad. I have to probably make a choice and I am going to have to hurt someone. There really is not a choice to be made. Mr. Number Cruncher has my heart … Continue reading

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